Do a lot of Asian-American women purposely NOT date Asian guys?
I sometimes wonder if a lot of Asian women here in the States consciously don’t date Asian men. I know that not all Asian girls who date Caucasian men are this way (some just fell in love with a guy who was White), but I also see a lot of Asian girls who seem to actively hate Asian guys and do their best to stay away from them and never bother to give them a chance. Is my perception of the situation wrong? Sometimes I really wonder…I’ve heard a few of my Asian female friends say they’re not into Asian guys…and then they settled for the nerdiest, boring White guy just because he was White. On the other hand, I know Asian girls who have dated all sorts of guys. Still, I sometimes wonder when I see an Asian girl with a White guy if she’s only dating him bc she hates Asian men.
July 3rd, 2009 at 10:38
Wow… your assumption is as ridiculous as me stating that the white chics that hit on me at work and my white female friends that flirt must hate white males and only want to settle for me even though I’m the most nerdiest boring Asian guy, just to get away from white males… Do you have a Brain in your head?